Life In Pyschodom - Letting Go!!!

Well, I have reached the point in my life were I am going to try and ignore my brother. People have told me this many times before and I have been unable to actually ignore him. I think he realizes this and does something so outrageous to draw my back in. It is my belief (maybe it is the old Baptists in me) that God puts people in our lives for a reason. So I believe there is something I am suppose to learn from my brother. And I think the first lesson is that everything cannot be controlled in life. When I let him back in I believe it is because I am trying to control the situation again (And I am also just repeating old habits). I also believe these situations are being brought up yet again in order that I may resolve some issues from my childhood. And I believe my brother is a pivotal part of my childhood that things have to be undone and learned from.